Wednesday, February 3, 2010

A Little Bit Shinier

My apologies for not updating this blog sooner- unfortunately, I've been feeling pretty tired and crummy lately. I know I'm not actually the sick one, but I've got lots on my plate, so I hope you'll be forgiving. Apparently Zach got a bunch of emails, because he finally told me that tonight I had to do this whether I was tired and cranky or not. (ha!)

Shortly before Zach's second session of chemo the world got a little bit shinier. Zach's hair had started thinning out little by little (due to the chemo, not due to him inching closer and closer to his 30's) and he decided to have the upper hand and remove it himself. We went out to dinner that night as a kind of "Fairwell Hair" party, after which we came back and shaved his blonde locks off with a pair of clippers. I won't lie...we were both a little emotional about it. I don't think we said more than a couple of sentences throughout the process, but Zach said that it really did feel good to be in control of the situation instead of the other way around. I'm so proud of him for being the kind of man that doesn't take the tough stuff lying down. I've included a picture of his newly shiny head for your viewing pleasure- he makes one hot baldie, if I do say so myself. Which reminds me...a big THANK YOU goes out to those of you who have sent him sock hats...they're helping keep the chill away in this 30 degree weather. He wears them so often that sometimes I honestly forget that his hair isn't there any more!


Despite the aforementioned chilly weather, Zach had a GREAT couple of weeks leading up to his second chemo session. We were amazed at how he hardly seemed sick...in fact, I'm pretty sure that he's never been better at Wii in his life. There really aren't a whole lot of updates to be had from that time period because it was as normal as can be!

Zach's second session of chemo went well- they put us in a big corner room and we had a new nurse that was incredibly friendly. She took great care of Zach, and the fact that she could talk football didn't hurt! The session was a little bit shorter than the first one (by about an hour) and even smoother as far as medication goes. During the first session he had to be checked every half hour to make sure he wasn't having a reaction, and this time we knew he would take the medication without any problems so we were able to all relax a bit. His blood tests are still coming back with high numbers, which means that his immune system is still rockin' and rollin'. Lastly, for those of you who were wondering, we didn't watch a single minute of swordfishing. It was all ESPN and CSI this time, which is far more tolerable. :)

Zach's Doc was able to provide us with a full chemo schedule (he'll have 6 sessions total) that runs through April- it's so incredibly nice to be able to look at that sheet of paper and think, "this is the day we can all breathe a sigh of relief!" At this point his doctor is unsure of whether or not he will need radiation therapy, so Zach will be meeting with a specialist in the near future to determine how that will be handled. Surgery has been ruled out, which is HUGELY great news- the power of prayer is at work once again! Since Chemo 2, Zach has been feeling a bit flu-ish. He's had some tiredness, some nausea, and similar (mostly mild) symptoms that thankfully haven't restricted his ability to go about his normal day-to-day life. His cravings for Chinese food definitely count toward the more desirable of his symptoms....his cravings for pickles, not so much. He's starting back on the upswing the past couple of days, and we're confident he'll be feeling back to almost-normal in a day or two.

All in all we're still feeling so blessed that everything has gone smoothly. We continue to get a lot of support from family and friends, and we've met a lot of young people who have 'been there' through their own battle with cancer (or that of their spouse). Thankfully, Zach has such a joyful heart that it's not difficult at all to be optimistic about this situation- he's one in a million for sure. But all of you single ladies, tough luck...he's still mine, bald head and all. :)

-Kristin

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Chemo is Boring, and so are Swordfish.

We learned something yesterday...

Chemo is boring.

Boring, however, is not that important when you consider its effectiveness. :)

Zach had his first round of chemo yesterday and things went very smoothly. For those of you who are not familiar with the process, chemotherapy consists of several medications that are administered through an IV drip that is connected to Zach's port. The medications are given one at a time, two of them being very quick and two that drip for hours...they're not painful and Zach said he couldn't feel them at all. All in all, it's pretty "vanilla" as far as medical procedures go- the only slightly exciting thing about chemo is that it temporarily turns your urine red....which I find incredibly amusing and Zach shrugged off as if it were completely normal. Go figure. I guess he's probably seen weirder things at work!

The day was a long one...we arrived at the oncology center at 9:30 in the morning and left just before 5, right when the nurses were leaving for the evening. So if you're wondering what we did for almost 8 hours, I'm going to tell you: we read magazines, chatted with the nurses, spent some time on our iPods, and then Zach watched a variation of "Deadliest Catch" involving swordfish fishing...for a good 5 hours. 5 hours. Not quite as dramatic as the medical procedures shown on Grey's Anatomy, is it?

Post-chemo hasn't been too bad so far...Zach has experienced some nausea and tiredness but for the most part he has been able to go about his day without feeling hindered. It helps that his parents came for a visit this weekend- it's been a welcome distraction and huge comfort to have family here with us. Wii games, shopping, restaurants, and chatter are so much better than 5 hours of swordfish fishing on TV!

Zach's next appointment is 3 weeks from now, but I promise I'll write another post or two before then so that everyone knows how he's doing.

***Other info to note:

***Apparently chemo does not cure cravings for Qdoba...it only makes them worse.

***We've added a Snuggie to our arsenal of cold weather accessories: sock hats, an electric blanket, and house slippers. Hopefully chemo doesn't cause hot flashes and sweating or we'll be completely unprepared. I guess he could always go lay in the snow for a while...

***We're not supposed to use our cell phones in the hospital during his chemo sessions, so if you message us and we don't answer please don't assume that something is wrong or that we don't think you're cool anymore. You're always cool...er, well...we think so anyway.

***THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU to all of you who have sent Zach "Get Well" cards and sent me cards of support. Thanks for the goodies, the care packages, the messages, and the cherry red BMW convertibles. (Okay, so that last one was just to see if you were paying attention...you got me.)

Thanks again for your love, concern, and prayers. You guys rock. ;)

-Kristin